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Thursday, September 17, 2009

THEATER OF THE ABSURD.

I started to write something, about how when I realized I had a game to go to tomorrow my immediate reaction wasn’t enthusiasm, it was dread. It was dragging-my-feet, oh GOD it’s cold and it might RAIN and now I have to schlep all this crap to the office or I will be miserable at the game. It was realizing that I could go and suffer or I could stay home and be annoyed that I lost the money I paid for these tickets. If I go I’ll be miserable because the Mets cannot play major league baseball, and if I stay home I will start making Wilpon family voodoo dolls.

I can’t even take the tack TBF and I were going on with last week or the week before, about how it’s still baseball and we still enjoy it. There is nothing to enjoy in this right now. We will be crabby and we will be chilly. If I don’t go he’ll feel bad for leaving me at home alone. If I go I’m going to be angry at a million different things.

There is nothing noble in my support of the team right now. I don’t even think I’m supporting the team in the true sense of the word. I am tolerating them. I am abiding them. I am suffering silently.

I just want the season to be over.

p.s. We are already planning our 2010 roadtrips.

Posted by Caryn at 10:46 PM

Yessss, road trips! What are you guys thinking? I don’t think I can do many because of the wedding and overall expenses, but I really want to do the Pitt weekend.

Posted by Julie  from  Chicago  on  09/18  at  09:27 AM

Yeah, I’m kind of going through that too, although with the added disincentive that the owners want to move the team and have been temporarily (so far) frustrated.

Oh, Mark.  I wish I had that level of fervor again.  I can just about remember it.  (Mets fanatic 1963-197year they traded Seaver, 1985-1993, current team 1994-now, sorta.  I definitely need a ball game this week.)

Posted by D. Potter  on  09/18  at  11:35 AM

caryn nobody knows better than me what its like to want to throttle your team as a whole, and i know it gives you nothing but misery (or sounds like it).  but suffering those lows it what makes the glory of the great plays and eventual wins so damned satisfying.  besides, its a long known fact that hate only exists where there is deep love.  so go and watch those losers stink it up, eat hot dogs to stay warm, curse them and the refs, and keep planning those road trips for next year. because win or lose, you know you’ll be back. =)

Posted by steph  on  09/18  at  11:38 AM

Julie: TBF figured out a 10 day trip out west that includes a game at every ballpark (including AZ), 6 mets games, some good CA driving and some down time.

the PGH weekend is a no brainer. but we will skip cleveland because i don’t get a lot of time off and those are expensive games from a vacation day perspective.

there is no doubt that i will go. i was just trying to be honest. i cannot identify with RAH RAH MY TEAM (or band) IS ALWAYS TEH BEST AND DOES NOTHING WRONG. they suck. i’m still there. I’m still wearing Mets stuff.

it just HURTS right now and i don’t believe anyone who says it doesn’t. Or rather, I believe you, but we have nothing in common.

Posted by Caryn  from  Brooklyn, NY  on  09/18  at  11:43 AM

C, maybe tonight you should do what I do with my kids - make it “opposite night” just to shake things up.

Hit a foodstand at Citi you’ve never hit before. Move around during the game. Grab a beer at SRO for a little. Sit in different seats. Start a “bring back ‘sweet caroline’ chant”.

Ok, maybe not that last one =)

Posted by JR  from  NJ  on  09/18  at  11:55 AM

omg i said REFS and not UMPS.  can you tell my team has been extinguished?

Posted by steph  on  09/18  at  12:09 PM

see, JR, what I love about the experience is the ritual of it, the sameness of it. there is comfort in the repetition. shaking things up is what people who go to the ballpark twice a year do. does that make sense? We don’t move around during the game. I would hate the idea. I don’t even like getting up to get food. I moved around and got food and browsed when I lived in Seattle and didn’t know anything about baseball and someone who worked for me also moonlighted at Mariners guest services and would call me if he had any leftover tickets he could give away. I did that stuff when I didn’t care about the game.

Okay, so maybe you have a point.

but, i hear ya.

Posted by Caryn  from  Brooklyn, NY  on  09/18  at  01:29 PM

OK you know what’s funny - is that now, I am skipping Saturday 1 pm games (my faves) because, well, I’d much rather do a kickboxing and spin class in the morning and do my laundry.  And that won’t give me nearly enough time to get to Flushing.  Yet, I am with JulieRubes above - ooh, they are playing in Pittsburgh, let’s totally go!

Such is life for the mets fan

Posted by The Coop  from  My desk  on  09/18  at  01:53 PM

I’d like to see pictures of the Fred & Jeff Wilpon voodoo dolls.

After this season, and the ends of the past two seasons (and for some, or maybe just me, losing Shea), we all have every right to lose interest in going to Citi Field.  I’d rather go than sell my tickets, only because I get so few, but I actually left a game during a long rain delay before it started, and haven’t been interested in going back (hopefully that gets better since I have 2 day games in October).

my roadtrip is Spring Training.  And probably Philly, Baltimore, and Washington with my dad.  Baseball away from Queens may still be fun (actually I did Philly when the Mets were there and baseball away from Queens still is fun).

Posted by DyHrdMET  from  NJ  on  09/22  at  06:30 PM
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